Questions to Ask an Agency
When you are considering adoption, the wide variety of options can seem overwhelming. You will have numerous choices to make, so information is the key ingredient.
We suggest you talk to others. Members of adoptive parent groups are full of information about adoption and can often tell you about specific agencies in your area that work well with adoptive families.
Attend orientation meetings and information classes.
Interview public and private agencies.
The following questions may help you determine with whom you wish to work.
Is the agency a non-profit or a for-profit corporation?
What types of children does the agency place?
- Children from foster care?
- Children from other countries?
Agencies that place more than one of these types of children or children from different countries will refer to their different "programs."
How many children did the agency place last year?
- How many were placed from the specific program you're interested in?
What are the agency's general requirements about the types of parents they work with?
- Age of adoptive parents?
- Single or nontraditional families?
- Marital history? Length of marriage?
- Religious affiliation?
- Fertility restrictions?
- Number of children already in the family?
- Do these requirements vary depending on what type of child I/we plan to adopt?
Requirements for adopting an infant are generally more restrictive than those for adopting a child from foster care.
How much will it cost to complete an adoption?
- Are there sliding fees scales?
- When will payments be required?
We recommend that you pay for services as you receive them, rather than paying the total cost up front.
Adoptions of waiting children through public social services agencies are often free. If fees are charged, they may be reimbursed when a child from that agency is placed with you.
Fees for private infant adoptions range from $5,000 - $40,000. International adoptions are generally in the same range.
Be sure to ask for a fee schedule so you know before you begin exactly what costs are covered in the adoption fee and what costs may be added on later, such as legal fees, the birth mother's and/or infant's medical expenses, expenses for travel to visit a waiting child in another state or to bring a child home from another country.
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How long will it take to complete an adoption?
Each adoption is unique. However, ask about the average length of time families wait between applying to adopt and beginning the home study.
Ask how long a wait to expect between completion of the home study and having a child placed in your home.
What steps are required in the process?
Although each agency's procedures vary and there are different requirements for infant, waiting children and international adoption, you can expect to complete some or all of the following:
1. Initial Interview
2. Application form
3. Adoption preparation classes
4. Family assessment (also called adoption home study)
When will the agency notify me/us of my/our approval for placement?
- Can we see a copy of our family assessment/home study?
- If we are not approved, can we find out why?
- Do you have a grievance process?
What steps will the agency take to help identify the right child for my family?
- What can or must we do to help find a child?
- Will the agency study me/us for both in-state and out-of-state children?
You need to ask them at what point in time they will consider helping you adopt a child from another county or state if they have not placed a child in your home.
Most public agencies placing children from foster care are primarily concerned about placing the children in their custody. As an adoptive family, they see you as a resource for their children.
Most private agencies that help families adopt waiting children will help you adopt from your
Most private agencies placing newborns will be facilitating a match between you and one of the birth mothers they are working with.